When a girl is attracted to a boy, it’s often way too subtle. Don’t worry, because there are a few female body language signs she likes you.
But…You have to pay attention to notice them because many of them aren’t very clear.
It’s often tough to figure out whether a girl really feels attracted to you or not. Sometimes she’s just trying to be polite and doesn’t want to break your heart.
Better to know the truth straight up, don’t you think?
Most guys prefer to find out straight up whether or not a woman likes them and these proven tips will certainly help.
44 FEMALE BODY LANGUAGE SIGNS SHE LIKES YOU
1. SHE’S GOING TO PLAY WITH HER HAIR OR TOUCH HER NECK
According to experts, when a girl intentionally does these things when conversing with you, she’s just trying to show you she is into you chemically speaking. If she consistently does this stuff, you are good to go in the “like” department.
2. SHE HAS NO ISSUES LOOKING AT YOU SEXUALLY
You know the gaze. When a woman raises her eyebrows with a smile, she’s showing you pleasure. Translation…she likes you.
Often when a woman likes a man, she will unconsciously raise her eyebrows and might even lower her eyelids sort of shyly.
She could lick her lips, catch your gaze or perhaps blink her eyes. Just be wary of them all.
Also, keep in mind if the girl is shy, she might be very subtle with any of these body language signs, so you’ll have to pay close attention.
3. SHE’S GOING TO TWIRL HER HAIR
When a girl is playing with her hair, experts say that’s showing off her feminine side. It’s sweet and she’s only trying to capture the attention of anyone looking her way. Beware, this move can also signify she’s board and wants to move things along a little faster.
4. THE BACK ARCH
When a woman arches her back, this makes her legs and br**sts the center of attention. She’s unconsciously trying to emphasize her body in order to get your attention. Often girls will do this to capture undivided attention from far off. Just be sure you don’t mix this up with her just trying to stretch.
5. PAY ATTENTION TO THE GIGGLE
When a girl giggles, she’s simply bringing out her fun-loving youth. She wants you to know that she is fun and alive and easygoing. If she makes eye contact with you when she’s giggling, that’s a fantastic signal she is into you.
The eyes are the secret to the soul, right?
6. SHE’S A BLUSHER
When a girl blushes, this is a simple biological reaction to a simplistic excited emotional state. She could just be embarrassed but more often than not, this is a body signal she likes you.
When a girl is deep with pleasure, she will change her shade to red, so keep your eye out for that.
7. SHE’LL LET HER FOOT SLIDE
If a girl becomes turned on when she is sitting down, she might let her foot fall off and onto the floor. Or she may just let it dangle from her toe in a playful manner. This is a s*xy sweet and inviting way to let you know the door is open.
8. DOES SHE LOOK BACK AT YOU OVER HER SHOULDER WITH A SMILE?
Women have a very specific look they are going to give when they are interested in a man. She will likely raise her shoulder and half look back at you, so you get a side profile. Apparently, this is the seductive look, the one you will see women use when posing in a magazine.
Keep your eyes open for this one.
9. SHE MAKES SURE SHE’S USING HER LIPS
Experts agree there are oodles of ways a girl can use her lips to peak the interest of a guy. One of the popular ones is applying lipstick slowly and s*xily. Some girls choose to eat their food in a slow and sensuous manner. One that is meant to arouse a guy.
If she’s sucking seductively on her straw or pausing with the strawberry in her mouth, she’s definitely trying to tell you she likes you with body language.
10. SHE’S INVADING YOUR PERSONAL SPACE ON PURPOSE
If you are both seated near each other and she’s leaning in toward you, chances are she likes you. Body language experts report if a girl doesn’t like a guy, she will use negative body language. She will sit with her arms and legs crossed and lean away.
When a girl reaches out to touch you while she’s moving closer, that’s a pretty good indicator the ball is in your court.
11. HER BREATHING GETS FASTER
When a girl is really attracted to a guy, her breathing will in fact increase noticeably. Not for her, but you will certainly recognize this.
On the other hand, if she’s having some sort of anxiety attack, that doesn’t necessarily mean she likes you. That should be pretty easy to spot.
12. THE MIRROR EFFECT
If a girl is paying attention to a man, she is going to naturally mimic his body language. This is her body trying to make a connection with you without actually touching. Test this out by picking up your drink to see if she follows. It won’t take you long to figure this one out.
13. HER NOSTRILS ARE FLARING NICELY
This one is completely uncontrollable. I can pinky swear promise you, she isn’t doing this on purpose. Experts report if a girl is naturally drawn to a man, one body signal might be to flare her nostrils.
14. SIGNALS SHE’D BE HAPPY IF YOU TOUCHED HER
This one is closely related to moving in closer to you. If a girl is trying to get close to you in a physical sense, she might show you this by rubbing her arms or shrugging. You’ll have to pay close attention to pick this one up but if you do, you’re on the right track.
15. HER HIPS ARE CENTER STAGE
If a girl makes sure you see her hips, she just might be interested in getting to know you better. So if she stands with her hands on her hips and a smile on her face, you’re definitely in her good books.
16. HER FACE IS IN THE HEADLIGHTS
If a girl is trying to frame her face for you, like putting her two hands on her face, she’s signalling to your via body language that she likes you.
17. THIS GIRL IS RUBBING AN OBJECT WITH A SEXY FEEL
According to relationship experts, one of the clearest signals a girl is into a guy is when she strokes or plays with an object seductively. I think you know what I’m saying.
18. HER WALK TO YOU IS SEXY
There’s no doubt my friend, when a girl walks toward you with the model-s*xy walk, she definitely likes what she sees. Intrinsically, she’s trying to get you to pay attention to her body and appreciate what you see.
19. MULTIPLE LEG CROSSES
When a woman is constantly crossing her legs, she’s either nervous as hell or she wants to let you know you’ve got her undivided attention. You need to pay attention to where her knee is. If it’s pointed toward you, then she really does like you.
20. SHE STROKES HER LEGS
When a girl is rubbing or stroking her thighs and legs, this is a clea-rcut sign she likes you. This is her way of subconsciously telling you she would love for you to touch her in a similar manner, lucky you.
21. SHE REACHES OUT TO TOUCH YOU
If a girl is willing to actively reach over and touch you anywhere, this is a solid signal she really does like you. Otherwise she would keep her hands to herself.
Newsflash – Women only touch men they are comfortable with.
Makes you a one lucky man, don’t you think?
22. IT’S THE HAIR
If a girl is playing attention to her hair, she is likely into you. This could mean she’s playing with it or it could just mean she got it done or styled it differently.
Think about it for a minute…If a girl is making sure her hair is perfect, there is a reason and if you’re lucky, the reason might be you!
23. SHE’S HAPPY TOUCHING HERSELF
I don’t mean this in a “porno-flick” manner. What I mean is if a girl is touching any part of herself, she is likely interested in getting to know you better.
Now this might be because she is trying to straighten her clothes or maybe she’s itchy, but you should be able to tell through her mannerism what it means.
I’ll leave this one for you to figure out.
24. THIS GIRL IS LOOKING SEDUCTIVELY AT YOUR DRINK
When a woman is gazing at your drink lovingly and she doesn’t have one in front of her, that’s your cue to go buy her one.
This is your opportunity to make that initial connection you’ve been waiting for. Ask her if she’d like a drink and go get it!
25. SHE STARTS STRIPPING DOWN
I don’t really mean it like that but if a girl is taking off items of clothing, this means she is comfortable with you and opening the door of opportunity.
Sure, she might just be hot but chances are if she didn’t like you, she would suck it up and keep the clothes on, just saying.
26. SHE’S SHOWING YOU HER DUCK LIPS
If a women is sticking out her lips like a duck would, she’s likely unconsciously telling you she likes you.
On a better note, she might even be asking you for a smooch. Read her body cues and take action if you really want her to like you.
27. THIS GIRL LAUGHS AT MOST OF WHAT YOU SAY
Now she can go overboard here but if a girl is laughing at your lame jokes, she just might be interested in getting to know you better. This is her way of showing you she sees you as easy going and relaxed and that’s totally attractive.
28. SHE PAYS ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
When a girl is into a man, she will basically hang of his every word. She wants to know what you are saying and appreciates you for you. When you see this, you’ve just struck gold.
29. HER GLASS SNEAKS CLOSER TO YOURS
This one you need to pay close attention to. This is a crazy subtle sign that she really does like you. When she pushes her glass closer to yours, even when she doesn’t know you that well, that means she likes you. End of story.
30. THIS GIRL PUSHES HER SLEEVES WAY UP
When a woman pushes her sleeves up, this is a signal to the man that she wants him to touch her wrists.
This is one of the most sensitive parts of a woman’s body. Who would have known?
31. THIS GIRL WILL FIDDLE WITH HER JEWELRY
If the girl in front of you is fooling around with her jewelry, that’s a pretty rock solid indicator she likes you. On what level, time will tell.
So if she is fidgeting with her ring or necklace or twisting her earrings, you can take that as a solid signal she in the least wants to get to know you better.
32. EVER HEARD OF THE FLIRTING TRIANGLE?
Truth be told, this is the flirting technique where a woman will look at you with her right eye, left eye, and then your mouth. If she repeats the look, you are in the green.
33. A DIRECT LOOK JUST DOESN’T HAPPEN
The “come hither” look is when a girl won’t look directly at you but she will turn to the side and sneak a peak. Some call this the shy way ,but more often than not if she’s smiling and not actually looking directly at you, she likes you.
34. THIS GIRL HAS NO ISSUES SHOWING OFF HER CONFIDENCE STANCE
No doubt, guys like a confident woman and girls know this. A confident girl will stand with each foot spread a tad further apart than normal. This is a clear-cut signal she is totally into you. Take it as you will, but I hope you are smiling.
35. IF SHE’S A SMOKER, SHE WILL SHOW YOU HER WRIST
This one is a little weird, I’ll admit. If the girl you have your eyes on is a smoker and she holds her smoking stick in one hand with her other wrist exposed, that’s a body language signal she wants to know you better.
36. SHE ISN’T AFRAID TO SEND YOUR STARE BACK REPEATEDLY
Girls understand these days a man might not actually get their eye flirting. What women know is that if they continuously send the stare back a a few times, the guy might actually get the message they like him.
This one is a work in progress. Sometimes it takes a little bit of time for the message to sink in.
37. THIS GIRL WILL STAND UP AND FACE YOU DIRECTLY
This is a crazy bold move to show you that she likes you and if you can’t see this one, you really don’t deserve the gal in front of you.
If a girl isn’t sure whether or not she likes you, she will stand to the side of you at best. She will never ever face you.
However, when a girl likes you, she may be willing to face you directly and show you that she is confident in herself and wants you to see that.
Again, what you do with that is totally up to you.
38. SHE’S A LIP BITER
If a girl is biting her lip while she is facing you, there’s no doubt she has an interest in you.
Fact…If she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t face you and she certainly would not be biting her lip. She might be kicking your butt though!
Lip biting is s*xy seductive. Let’s leave it at that.
39. BIG SMILES ALL AROUND
There’s a difference between a forced smile and a genuine one. You’ll be able to spot the difference in a minute. When a girl is into a man, she is going to show him her smile and more than anything else, her eyes will be smiling most.
The eyes just don’t lie.
If you are yammering away and she is smiling and listening to you attentively, well, I can tell you straight up that you have caught her attention.
How you handle that is of course up to you.
40 – HER CLEAVAGE IS SERIOUSLY IN YOUR FACE
If you’ve noticed that she’s dropped her top level a touch and opted for the nice bodacious push-up bra, chances are pretty good she’s trying to show you she really does like you through her cleavage.
This is actually a conscious body language sign used to show a man she likes him.
Truth – If you don’t like her efforts, then she is not the girl for you.
41. EVER HEARD OF THE THREE HEAD NOD?
When you are talking with her, does she nod three times or show you three different facial expressions continuously?
Perhaps a nod, tilt and a frown?
If she does this, it’s another clear indication that she really does like you, that’s according to the experts of course.
When a gal is preening, she is essentially fixing herself up in front of you. What she’s trying to do is look attractive and she’s super nervous you might not like what you see.
This means she might be taking out her makeup mirror or brushing her hair. Whatever it takes to look better for you.
Take this as a clear signal she likes you.
43. – THIS GIRL IS STARTING THE CONVERSATION BY ASKING YOU ALL THE QUESTIONS
If a girl walks up to you and starts the conversation, you are super nuts to not take this to the next level. Talk about guts my friend!
When a girl is asking you questions, it means she genuinely wants to know more about you. If you aren’t interested, just tell her.
Otherwise, take this as a golden opportunity to walk right in.
If you pass this one by, you really don’t want the girl.
44. HER TONE WILL CHANGE AROUND JUST FOR YOU
You really can tell how interested a girl is with you by how excited she is around you. Her pitch will get a tad higher and she won’t even notice.
Did you know that if a girl doesn’t like a man, her voice will actually get deeper? Eek!
Bottom line…Pay attention to her tone and you will figure out whether or not she likes you.
It’s tough to figure out whether a girl likes you or not by her female body language signs. But you do have to start somewhere.
Reading body language has never ever been an easy thing. Partially, because women aren’t usually the first ones to approach a man.
Women are good at flirting and that’s crazy hard for most men to interpret.
However, the body language does not lie because it’s not conscious. In other words, it’s really not controllable.
Use these expert tips and tricks to make it easier for you.
Follow her body cues and add that to the expert information you have gathered and you will be ten steps ahead of the competition.
Best of luck!